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San Diego Divorce & Family Law Resources

Are You at Risk for Gray Divorce?

It has been referred to as a gray divorce, a silver splitter or even a diamond splitter. But no matter the color you see it as, they all refer to the same thing. A gray divorce is a divorce or separation between a married couple in older age, generally considered past the age of 50. The current demographic being observed are the marriages of baby-boomers, or marriages between people born in the late 1940s to the early 1960s.

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How To Make Child Custody Work

The suitcase is packed; the itinerary set. The only thing is that you’re not going on vacation. Instead, your children are actually headed to their other parents’ home, your ex. Separation and divorce are not easy for any party involved. Addressing and facilitating child custody is an additional element that can be emotionally painful, and does require extra energy and planning to make work.

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Divorce Financial Checklist: What you Need to Know

Going through a divorce can feel overwhelming and complicated. There are so many things to consider when it comes to divorce, especially when you think about finances and dividing property. You might be worried about what will happen to your money and how joint and separate bank accounts come into play during the divorce process. There are a few things you should do before and during the divorce process to protect yourself and your assets. Here is everything you need to know about bank accounts during divorce and what you should do about them.

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Common Divorce Misconceptions in California

Being Family Law Attorneys in San Diego, we have run across a variety of different cases over the many years practicing family law. While there are common issues that come up in each divorce, not each divorce is the same. Just because you have a friend who went through a divorce with a certain outcome doesn’t mean that is what will happen in your divorce case. Here are common incorrect assumptions we hear in our family law practice.

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Eight Key Tips for Having a Civil Divorce

Deciding to divorce your spouse can be one of the most difficult life decisions you can make. It isn’t something decided lightly, and the process of making the choice to leave your spouse can be painful. Ending your marriage will bring up an influx of emotions for both you and your spouse. When dealing with a lot of emotions, people don’t always make the best decisions. That said,, it is possible to have an amicable divorce that ends peacefully, but it takes work. Here are some of our key tips for having a “civil” divorce.

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James Vercollone
Child Custody in Today’s Day and Age

Divorce can be complicated, especially when minor children are involved. Generally speaking, California law will favor joint legal and joint physical custody when both parents agree to that arrangement. Joint legal custody refers to when both parents have the rights and responsibilities to make decisions regarding their children’s health, education and welfare (i.e. choice of children’s doctors, schooling, extracurricular activities, etc.). Joint physical custody refers to the actual physical child sharing arrangement whereby the parents have equal, or somewhat equal, time with the children in their primary care.

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How to File for Divorce in San Diego: Forms Needed

In San Diego, California, divorce is called a dissolution of marriage, and in order to properly file a divorce you need to meet residency requirements and prepare many different forms. In order to file for divorce in San Diego, you or your spouse must have been living in California for at least six months and living in San Diego County for at least 3 months leading up to the date you file. If neither you or your spouse meet these requirements, you may not be able to file for divorce in San Diego, California (However, you may be able to file for a legal separation – Contact us for more information on this.) If you meet the residency requirements, you will need to prepare a variety of forms before going to court for your California divorce. Here is some basic information on the various forms you need to prepare in order to file for a divorce/dissolution of marriage in San Diego.

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Tips to Prepare for Your Child Custody Hearing

Going through a divorce can be very difficult, especially when children are involved. It is incredibly important to be sensitive and intentional with your child during the divorce process. It is imperative to properly prepare for your child custody case in order to obtain the best outcome. There are a lot of things you can do before and during your custody case that will affect the results, so it is important to do your research and understand what the court will be looking at during this time. Here are some of our top tips to help you prepare for your child custody hearing.

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James Vercollone
Now What? The Best Advice for the Newly Divorced

Going through a divorce can be a daunting experience. You have spent so much time preparing and you finally made it to the end - you signed the divorce papers. Now what? Now it’s time to start rebuilding your life and figuring out who you really are. You’ve probably moved, started a new job, began making new friends - changes are happening and it’s imperative to embrace them. Here are some important things we recommend you do once your divorce is finalized.

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How to Choose a Divorce Lawyer

Divorce can be messy. When you’re married to another person, you build a life together and when it ends in divorce, it can be complicated to divide your shared assets. If you have property or children involved, it is incredibly important to find an experienced divorce lawyer to help the process go as smoothly as possible. However, finding the right attorney can be a bit overwhelming, which is why we decided to put together some tips to help you navigate the search for a divorce lawyer.

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5 Reasons to Consider a Prenuptial Agreement

It can be very easy for engaged couples to get swept up in the process of planning a wedding and neglect to consider their futures. We don’t blame them, after all, no one wants to plan for their marriage failing before it even starts. However, many engaged adults are investing in prenuptial agreements to properly prepare and protect themselves before marriage.

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5 Key Questions to Ask During Your Divorce Attorney Consultation

Divorce is a complex and emotional process that, at times, can seem impossible to navigate. However, your San Diego divorce attorney will be there to support you when things get tough. No two situations are the same so your attorney should not act as such. Since your case is unique to you, it is important to seek out a divorce attorney that will be best suited to cater to your individualized needs.

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How Much Do Divorce Mediation Services Cost in San Diego?

When it comes to divorce proceedings, mediation is almost always less expensive than litigation. After all, keeping your case out of court keeps you from incurring all of the expenses that come along with preparing for and undergoing a trial. Especially for those on a tighter budget, mediation may be the most feasible option for divorce proceedings. Because of its expedited time frame and lower cost, more and more people are turning to mediation.

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How Much Does a Divorce Cost in San Diego?

Divorce is difficult for a multitude of reasons. No one wants to accept that their marriage is failing, let alone face the emotional ups and downs that the process heaps upon you. On top of that, the financial impact of divorce can be surprising for those who don’t adequately prepare for the process. One of the most common questions that we get is is, "how much does a divorce cost in California?".

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How to Ask Your Spouse for a Divorce

You’ve done the soul searching, sought out counseling, and came to the decision that you must move forward with a divorce. Now, you might be asking yourself "how do I go about telling my spouse?" There is no easy way to talk to your spouse about getting a divorce. There’s just no way to do it that doesn’t leave you both with at least some emotional and mental stress. It’s going to be hard, but you will get through it.

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